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Posted in Biography (Wednesday, July 23, 2008)

Written by Scott Berne. By AuthorHouse. The regular list price is $21.95. Sells new for $13.72. There are some available for $14.05.
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Posted in Biography (Wednesday, July 23, 2008)

Written by Sam Kashner. By Harper Perennial. The regular list price is $13.95. Sells new for $0.04. There are some available for $0.01.
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5 comments about When I Was Cool: My Life at the Jack Kerouac School (P.S.).

  1. And I do mean glimpse...
    There are flashes here of great insights into the personas of Allen Ginsberg, Peter Orlovsky, and Gregory Corso
    You see the psycho-sexual strands of Ginsberg/Orlovsky partnership played out in their gaudy technicolor glory (this is also a weakness...more on that later) and you get a real sense of G. Corso's suspicions and insecurities but to me the real value of this book is the insight it sheds on William Burroughs and his life during this period (tearfully reading Jack London) and in particluar his tempestous relationship with his son Bill Jr.
    These insights were valuable to me as a huge Burroughs fan and were the main things I took away from this book...especially because most accounts of WSB's life and work in the 70's focus exclusively on the NYC Bunker period...
    some negative aspects of this book are:
    as R.Rhodes mentions in the review further down the page there is somewhat of a high school note-passing he has a crush on him style narrative that is tiresome
    Anne Waldman and the whole who did or didn't sleep with Bob Dylan angle is irritating as is the narrator (unfortunately)
    he seems like a genuinely decent guy but his tone is fairly off-putting most of the time and he and his observations are ultimately not that interesting.
    I would recommend for diehard Beat collectors and/or Burroughs fans only


  2. WHEN I WAS COOL: My Life at the Jack Kerouac School. A Memoir by Sam Kashner.
    A memoir of a then skinny, naive teenage boy, from a liberal, fairly well-off Jewish family, who goes from thinking Walt Whitman "had something to do with food - Maybe the Whitman Sampler box of chocolates." to being the author of 3 nonfiction books and a novel. Kashner convinces his parent to allow him to enroll in the Jack Kerouac School of Disembodies Poetics, (of which he was the very first and, at the time, only one to do so), in lieu of conventional college. In the spring of 1976, Kashner's life has just begun. Hanging out with Allen Ginsberg, William Burroughs, Gregory Corso, Peter Orlovsky and Anne Waldman, as well as cameos by the remaining Beat and non-Beat writers and muscians of the era, Kashner interweaves Beatlore with his own innocent reflections in a frank, humorous and extremely entertaining and informative platitude. A free-spirited "Kiss & Tell" theme runs through the pages as openly as the heroin in Burroughs veins. Hailed as a hero with his father's Diner's Club card, Kashner is called upon repeatedly to aid and abet the shenanigans of this anti-normal group of word artists. Between editing Ginsberg & Corso's manuscripts, baby-sitting Billy Burroughs the JR., backing way too many monetary expenses, one wonders who is actually benefiting from his enrollment. Intimacies of thwarting sexual advances from Ginsberg to succumbing to di Prima, are embarrassingly shared in all their sordid, ribald and ultimately bodacious glory. A "he loves him but he loves her" floats through this stew in chunks while Kashner ponders the directed aloofness of Walkman, while impregnating one of her troup. Marijuana fields, whores, drug houses, theft and mayhem.. all the elements of prime-time are just casual actualities of extra curriculum. Kashner also stands by, silently, as Ginsberg and his ilk follow the teachings of their oft drunk Tibetan Buddhist meditation teacher Chogyam Trungpa, Rinoche - who pounds on Ginsberg to "lose your ego" as he pads his own pockets and libido with admiration and servitude. Reflections from the Beats are also placed abundantly within as all give their good, bad or indifferent memories of Kerouac and Cassady an ear. One of the best "Beat" books I've read. Used and abused, we go from day one to graduation with his zany encounters and events, all the while hoping the school gets it's accreditation before he graduates. Reminiscent of Tom Wolfe's days of entrenchment with Ken Kesey & the Merry Pranksters, it's a fun, fast paced-read that shows us what happens when literary renegades become our teachers.


  3. There are a lot of things to like about Sam Kashner's coming-of-age memoir, "When I Was Cool." First: Mr. Kashner wasn't cool and probably knows it. Second: he doesn't go through detox or recovery. Halleluia! A memoir without a recovery center or AA meeting. Third: his affection for these old lions, of whom only Peter Orlovsky is still with us. Fourth: the look at their everyday lives, from hemorrhoids to the keystone cops comedy of The Jack Kerouac School of Disembodied Poetics. Fifth: Mr. Kashner's long suffering, very cool, and funny parents. And Sixth: Mr. Kashner's teenaged, wide-eyed, intimidated, growing-up self.

    Its not the last book that will be written about Naropa or any of the characters, but it's the only book written by the first (and for a long time only) student of the Kerouac school, and is sometimes lovely, often funny, and very easy - it's "a report of an intimate nature," i.e., gossip.


  4. Kashner has the distinction of writing a book that is both priceless and very forgettable at same time. His anecdotes about his time at the Kerouac school in the late 1970s with Ginsberg, Corso, Burroughs, and Huncke are the priceless part. He gives us a real gift in these, a special glimpse of these lives as older and quirkier and more human than is easy to find. This is Kashner's gift and alone justifies the price of the book. This is what will ensure it's place in the Beat library.

    But as for the rest... Kashner was a young man out of high school studying with tired writer-celebrities. Yet he endlessly bemoans the old Beats' disinterest in letting him into their inner circle of confidences and plans. One can forgive the young Kashner his dissapointment that his grumpy middle age teachermen didn't leap to treat the 19-year-old Kashner as the equal in life and thought that he was not. But the now middle-age Kashner who reflects for us still smarts about it, annoyingly still snaps at his old teachers for being too self absorbed to take him into their fold as a brother.

    Kashner doesn't seem up to the task of elucidating on his old idols, doesn't seem to grasp their real richnesses among their messiness. At book's end, Kashner details how he eventually gave up on poetry and switched to fiction and prose when he became convinced he'd never find fame or fortune in it. That's just what's annoying about Kashner throughout this book: He went to study with the Beats to soak in the fame and get a piece, not for love of poetry or authentic living, nor the need to create and live as such. He criticizes this idols' selfishness and seeking of public love in fame. But these odd old men also had a fire in them for creation and expression and the poet's attentiveness to life and authentic living. They wrote poetry because they needed to, they felt the world as they did and needed to express it for themselves. They hungered for it. And Kashner will have none of it. He fell in love with the image and the dream of being a poet, and when he paid his tuition to the Jack Kerouac School he expected he was buying his place in the lineage of great poets. But he didn't feel what it was all about then and he doesn't now in this book, he has no feel for it or the folk who write it.

    I think this is why Kashner's thoughts and critiques of the Beats fall so hollow. I closed the book glad it was over -- sad there would be no more rare humanizing glimpses and funny stories of my favorites, but glad to no longer be subject to Kashner's simplistic stabs at all the old men, glad to be done with his self interested narration. Read the book for the anecdotes, for a special outsider's look at very human myths, Kashner relays these funny stories competently enough. Leave the rest as Kashner himself seems to, without any real warmth or connection or depth.


  5. Sam Kashner seems to want everything to be as it had been before his birth, but his timidity prevented him from acting out the 50's, 60's or the 70's. He didn't "get his hands dirty" as Naropa student Peter Marti put it, a poet who crawled from some serious wreckage to a sanity beyond shooting drugs and a heterosexuality based on what he wanted, not what he feared.

    We'll skip the list of details Sam gets wrong (for example, Burroughs did not shoot an apple, but a shot glass, from his wife's head), but suffice it say there are enough of them to indicate he's not a scholar of the situation. The fact that he is actually a professional journalist who writes for GQ and VANITY FAIR confirms my worst fears about articles in these magazines. On the plus side, Sam's magazine background makes this as breezily readable as the best pop journalism. First, however, we are forced to examine some of the remarks reserved for women. Anne Waldman is glamorous and unavailable, thus a vain bitch. Diane di Prima has become heavy, and thus disappoints.

    It is almost grim that Sam is in the middle of such interesting history and seems to be blowing it by insisting on his preconceptions. I visited Naropa in 1978. I'd known Allen for 4 years, and had already filmed Burroughs in NYC. Corso was a scary guy I'd met in SF and regarded as a great poet but I was never in his court, though I saw him at least a dozen times over the years. Naropa was an extension of what I already knew, and was for the brief week I stayed there, both a heaven and hell for me. In memory, it is a legend I brushed against gratefully.


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Posted in Biography (Wednesday, July 23, 2008)

Written by Essie Mae Washington-williams and William Stadiem. By Harper Perennial. The regular list price is $14.95. Sells new for $3.43. There are some available for $2.70.
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5 comments about Dear Senator: A Memoir by the Daughter of Strom Thurmond.

  1. **MILD SPOILERS**

    Like many, I was rather disgusted at the posthumous revelation of notorious racist Strom Thurmond's illegitimate daughter.
    Like many I doubted that in Jim Crow South of the 20's & 30's that an underage African American girl financially dependent on the family could actually have a relationship of equals. Like many I assumed there was probably some coercion (finanical if not physical force). I also assumed that he paid the daughter to keep his hypocrisy quiet.

    The book taught me not to make assumptions, that the truth is more complex. And the truth was almost sadder and more amazing than my preconceptions. To read that her mother loved Strom hopelessly. To know that she herself felt obligated to keep quiet. I was blown away.

    It's also just an interesting story of growing up black in the 30's, 40's and 50's in the North (Pennsylvania and NYC) where there was more 'freedom'. And her time (and reasons for returning) in South Carolina is also compelling reading.

    The descriptions of meetings with her father are fascinating. Her descriptions of her father's views of himself are astounding (he honestly did not think he was racist, he claimed he was tring to "help" the blacks (so long as they kept secret). It's these brief glimpses we get into Strom Thurmon'd personal life and views (mediated through his daughter) that kept me glued to the book in amazement.

    I could really empathize with what this woman went through.
    And I applaud her for finally coming foward and sharing her story with others.
    I highly recommend this!


  2. MOST INTERESTING READING. READ IT OVER ONE WEEKEND. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED.
    STROM THRUMOND COULD'VE PLAYED HARDBALL AND THREATENED HER MOTHER, BUT INSTEAD FINANICIALLY SUPPORTED HER THROUGH THE YEARS AND PAID FOR HER COLLEGE EDUCATION. Remember, segregation was well alive down South in those days.


  3. It provided a provocative insight into the lives and times before the civil rights movement through the eyes of a publically unrecognized daughter of a prominent man. It also provided a refreshing new slant on their relationship. Although I had held the "racist" senator in much contempt at the time, after reading this book, I found my feelings for him somewhat mitigated and softened.


  4. I wasn't sure I wanted to read this book. Was it just another "tell all" book by someone capitalizing on a scandal? But I was curious about this "secret" Black daughter of the notorious Southern Senator, so I opened the book. I'm glad I did because reading it took me back to another time, another era, another mind-set where a man could love a Black woman he had to keep hidden and care about the daughter they made together, care enough to see her regularly and to generously provide for her needs. Yet father and daughter never shared a meal together.

    How did Essie Mae Washington-Williams survive such a life and keep Strom Thurmond's secret her whole life, until the Senator finally died at age 100 and she was an old woman? She did it because, despite everything, she loved him and respected him. He was her father.

    I found her stories of the South in the late 1930s and 1940s a revelation, as she related the reality of segregation and her father's firm and apparently sincerely-held belief that "separate but equal" was the right way for Black and White to relate to each other. It's an amazing story: Growing up in Coatesville Pennsylvania, thinking her aunt was her mother, meeting her real mother (a beautiful woman, she tells us), taking a trip back to her mother's roots in South Carolina, and meeting her father for the first time, as a shy teen-ager.

    Her shyness with her father kept her from challenging him on his public statements, but eventually that timidity broke down as Essie Mae grew to adulthood, got married, and raised a family. Finally she could tell him that black people hated him and considered him their enemy. But by then he had moved away from the "Dixiecrat" creed that had led him to challenge Harry Truman in 1948 in a presidential election in which he carried four Southern states. He insisted it was not about segregation, but about states' rights.

    Woven into her story are all the political and cultural events of the 1950s, the 1960s and beyond. We read about having to sit in the balcony at movie theaters, attending the all-black college in South Carolina, riding in the back of the bus (and once, when she was pregnant, refusing to give up her seat, just like Rosa Parks), her cross-country trip with children in the early 50s when there were few motels or even gas stations that would serve "coloreds."

    We marvel as we wonder why she kept his secret, why she didn't tell the world she was Strom Thurmond's daughter? Was it the money he generously gave her each time they saw one another? Was this "hush money," as her husband Julius would later say? She insists her father never told her to keep quiet, but she wanted to have a father and in her own way was proud of being the daughter of such a powerful and intelligent man. Could she risk losing what little of him he gave her?

    How strange that Strom Thurmond thought the world would think less of him if they knew of his secret daughter! How could he care for Essie Mae's mother, but not want the world to know? How could people have had such values? Essie Mae tells us of the Confederate flags that flew everywhere in South Carolina, the statues to Civil War heroes who fought for the Confederacy, the disdain for the federal government, and the painful aftermath of the Civil War that continued to simmer. It was a different time, and Strom Thurmond was a complicated man. If his own daughter, who he refused to acknowledge in public, could defend him (as she most certainly does in this book), then maybe we all need to consider that nothing is as simple as it seems.


  5. Can you really love and respect a person whose ethics and moral principles you abhor? Well, after reading "Dear Senator," I believe Essie Mae, did. This was quite a revealing read about the relationship between Essie Mae and her father, Strom Thurmond. Imagine for 16 years living with the people who you think are your parents, then finding out that the woman you think is your mother really isn't your birth mother and that your birth father is really Strom Thurmond.

    So, what do you do? Do you run out and tell the world that this man who is a political god in the state of South Carolina is your father or do you keep the secret for decades - only revealing it after the man dies? Do you continue to long to be accepted by your father and your father's family or just accept that "it is what it is?" Do you justify keeping your father's secret as a sign of respect for him? Do you continue to accept his "child support" payments and convince yourself that it's his way of showing that he cares? Do you keep the secret of your parentage from your husband and children until "the time is right to tell them?"

    Oh, such are the dilemmas for Ms. Washington-Williams. Her journey is one that makes for a noteworthy read as she moves through life carrying this remarkable secret that, if told, could have ruined the political career of a man who made his mark as a staunch opponent of Black civil rights.

    I'm glad Ms. Washington-Williams was finally able to have this burden lifted.

    3.5 Stars - the .5 for the mention of my alma mater, NCA&T!


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Posted in Biography (Wednesday, July 23, 2008)

Written by Abby Ellin. By PublicAffairs. The regular list price is $12.95. Sells new for $3.01. There are some available for $3.20.
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5 comments about Teenage Waistland: A Former Fat-Camper Weighs in on Living Large, Losing Weight, And How Parents Can (And Can't) Help.

  1. Prepare to laugh, cry and cringe --- but also to learn --- as Abby Ellin leads us through the landscape of obese teen life. First, though, a confession: When I volunteered to read this book, I feared that I was facing a hard, long slog through a dry tome packed with scientific studies on how to help an overweight kid drop a few pounds. Instead, I could barely put down this lively read. Ellin keeps a page-turning pace as she skillfully weaves her own story as a heavy, weight-obsessed teenager through the stories of other such adolescents.

    Ellin begins with her own family, who courageously support her by not challenging her right to tell the unvarnished truth about the ways in which her home contributed to her weight problems and food fixations. Interestingly, the family's attitudes toward weight resulted in the author's sister becoming anorexic. Even as Ellin grew larger and larger, her sister began dieting by third grade.

    Ellin's grandmother was a major influence on her self-image, withholding affections when Ellin gained weight. On visits to Grandma's house in Florida, Grandma weighed Ellin daily. At home, Ellin's mother obsessed over her own weight, restricted her diet and exercised before stepping on the scales each morning. She taped a photo of an obese woman on the refrigerator door. Both grandmother and mother repeatedly drilled into Ellin and her sister the dangers of gaining weight. As a child, Ellin was devastated when her grandmother told her she couldn't come to Florida for a visit at Christmastime unless she lost 15 pounds. The ploy didn't work. Nothing really did, for many long, sad years.

    Ellin spent six years at weight-loss camps. She lost weight but also learned more about dysfunctional eating and how to do it (one counselor sneaked Ellin out to buy a cart full of candy and cookies because "Your body's getting used to the diet. You need sugar to give it a jolt."). In describing her fat camp days, she tells us the story of the owners of weight-loss camps, beginning with her visit as an adult with the man who ran the first weight-loss camp Ellin attended. During her visit, she talks with young campers, giving us the first of many insightful conversations with teens seeking to lose weight. What they say about their parents can make a reader weep.

    In TEENAGE WAISTLAND, we learn what has helped teenagers lose weight and, (heartbreakingly) more often, what has either not helped them or made them worse. Experts --- from fat camp leaders to directors of weight loss programs to bariatric surgeons, researchers and fat activists (and more) --- represent a variety of attitudes as each discusses the best way to help heavy adolescents. Ellin compassionately presents suggestions to parents on ways to support an obese child, all based on respect.

    Although there is not a single solution to such a complicated problem, reading this book is informative and helpful. It is a horrifying and fascinating study in our culture's warped attitude toward food and weight. Even if you don't have a child with weight issues, TEENAGE WAISTLAND is an engrossing read.

    --- Reviewed by Terry Miller Shannon (terryms2001@yahoo.com)


  2. I work in public health and struggle to find resources that are useful. This is a great book for everyone. There is no magic pill and there is no easy fix - but there are LOTS of ways to make things worse. Until we have changed our social norms, our environment, and the availability and ease to make healthy choices, it's going to be a long, tough road. This book is a great read that describes what it's like to struggle with weight - good for those of us who are lucky and think our 5-8 pound struggle is horrible, as well as those who struggle with real weight challenges and are ready to hear the painful truth of a child's experience. Well done, Abby.


  3. An honest look at America's obsession with weight loss and how it affects the younger generation. The author, a former fat kid and fat camp survivor (though not a parent, as she acknowledges) explores various ways to lose weight from fat camps to nagging to behavior modification and surgery, among others. Sadly, there is no quick fix or even well-planned diet and exercise program that works for all, or even some. Due both to lack of willpower or incentive, and physical factors beyond the dieter's control, often the weight is lost then gained then lost again.

    "Teenage Waistland" lets the young subjects speak for themselves. It is a fascinating look at a controversial subject.


  4. This book was extremely helpful to me and my family. As the parent of an overweight child, Abby Ellin's insight as a "former fat kid" is a hands-on "what to do/"what not to do" primer for any parents dealing with these sensitive issues. You're never really sure what to do until you're faced with it head on and Ellin's book showed that it's the sensible approach that makes the most sense. Don't panic; don't over react (as is the most instant impulse). Just act sensibly. Well done!


  5. Simply put, Abby Ellin "gets it". She had a childhood relationship with weight, food, and family that stays with her, regardless of what the scale says today. She candidly tells her story, which isn't always a happy one, but it's often hilarious. When it comes to the "fat kid epidemic", the author doesn't claim to have all the answers, but is very willing to explore a variety of solutions. Teenage Waistland is tragic, eye-opening, humorous and true. Once you read the introduction: Fat Kid Blues - you'll be hooked, just like the author is on Hostess cupcakes!


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Posted in Biography (Wednesday, July 23, 2008)

Written by June Sawyers. By Omnibus Press. The regular list price is $17.95. Sells new for $8.95. There are some available for $8.75.
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4 comments about Tougher Than The Rest - 100 Best Bruce Springsteen.

  1. TOUGHER THAN THE REST is a decent book though the format of the book's song-by-song discussion makes it read like a reference book. The author doesn't count down songs from 100 to 1 - instead she organizes the book by album, chronologically, and discusses only the songs from those albums that she deems among the Top 100. And speaking of the Top 100 selection, even though you can't please everyone with a book like this, you have to question the selection process when the author ignores classics like "Incident on 57th St" and "Jungleland" (neither of these show-stoppers are among BS's 100 best??) but picks "Workin' on the Highway" and "All or Nothin' at All"...not to mention 8 of the 12 songs on The Ghost of Tom Joad. For a more thorough discussion of Springsteen's catalog (practically every song including unreleased ones) try R. Kirkpatrick's THE WORDS AND MUSIC OF BRUCE SPRINGSTEEN.


  2. a reflection on the content of the book itself, but it seems a shame that they wouldn't pay the photographer of the cover photo. Also, what's with the publisher's product description: Greetings from Asbury Park, NY? Writing a blurb about a book about Springsteen's work and you can't get an album title correct? And confusing NY and NJ with Springsteen? Silly.


  3. I only bought this book as I made the cover photograph and they used it without ever getting my permission or paying me.


  4. Simply a great book for any Bruce Springsteen fan. The author does a fine job of gathering information and writing it in such a way that will inspire any reader.
    "Slow dancing in the dark with an angel on my chest..."


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Posted in Biography (Wednesday, July 23, 2008)

By Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Company. The regular list price is $18.00. Sells new for $8.68. There are some available for $4.50.
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2 comments about Thin Ice: Coming of Age in Grand Rapids.

  1. I am a Grand Rapids native and a lifelong student of history. Gordon Olson is a well-respected city historian and I thought he and his co-editors have done a marvelous job assembling a thorough and well-balanced perspective of growing up in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

    It's sometimes awkward for a native to read less than glowing reviews from the perspective of certain groups or individuals. Clearly the fairly homogenous ethnic make up of the city (in fact much of the West Michigan area) makes it easier to overlook the challenges that minorities have felt through the years, and I certainly appreciated the pain expressed by a few of the contributors.

    Still, Grand Rapids is a terrific place to grow up. It's large enough to offer plenty of opportunity, and yet small enough to feel like home. It's thought-provoking to get a sense for some of GR's unique character and cultural fabric already being reflected in its citizens more than 150 years ago.

    The hard-working, thrifty, community-oriented stock best represented by the city's favorite son, former President Gerald R. Ford, comes through loud and clear. Thanks are owed to the research team that vetted the work that went into this must read for anyone who wants to truly understand what makes Grand Rapids what it is today.


  2. I live in the Grand Rapids area, plus I am a high school English teacher, so my natural interest spurred the purchase of this book. At first, when I started reading, I chose stories by authors whose names I recognized. Then I realized that the stories were presented in chronological order, so I started from the beginning. No matter what order is chosen, every story is wonderful. They are all very different in style and feeling, but a sense of place shines through, as well as a sophistication that belies Grand Rapids' humble demeanor. These stories are universal, engaging and fun. I have read hundreds of short stories, and this collection truly stands out.


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Posted in Biography (Wednesday, July 23, 2008)

Written by Bill Lee. By Rhapsody Press. The regular list price is $28.00. Sells new for $19.90. There are some available for $19.88.
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5 comments about Chinese Playground : A Memoir.

  1. I just finished reading Bill Lee's book "Chinese Playground," it was a book that I could not put down. It is a must read. I found I had a lot in common with the author of the book, we both have had our own experiences in our lifetime, but it comes down to getting through the problems. It's a matter of SURVIVAL and learning something from our experiences. I admire the author for what he has been thru and what he has made of his life inspite of the obstacles.

    I would recommend that everyone read this book!


  2. I've seen this in Chinatown Toishan parents and the kinds of effects that their nastiness has on their kids and the conflicted confused ideas of Confucian obedience that prevent intelligent kids from healing as fast as they could especially when in other Chinese families, Confucianism does work and families are peaceful and happy or if the kids aren't targeted by their nasty parents, they grow up smug and snug and sly. I can't even imagine what it is like to grow up with such parenting in parts of Asia where Western psychobabble isn't pervasive and there are no clues at all for kids to suss out why their parents behave terribly.

    When the author was four years old, he required medical appointments once a month and his mother would not speak to him during this once a month escort but she would sigh throughout the bus ride and sometimes not sit next to him to indicate that he was an imposition. I've seen this happen. I've also seen parents threaten to leave toddlers and sometimes actually walk away from children and stay hidden watching their child's distress. It looks like the parents who do this imply to their kids that this can't be held against the parents since it not a regular occurence and will soon vanish in their infant memory. I know exactly what the author means (because I have seen it) when he writes that his mother was "unpredictable," intensified abuse when her child "cried harder," "perceived [her children] as her enemies ...[and] was a master at making [her children] feel repulsive." It's not a secret and he's not exaggerating or demonizing his parents. Other people see but why don't things change? I think that things don't change within a closed community and there has to be certain conditions in place with regard to subgroup's historical attitude towards entitlement, money, education and subgroup dogmatism for the problem to exist. This is not an entirely Chinese problem. It is at least specific subgroup's problem as far as I am aware. I know that irrational injust parenting had to have had something to do with later judgement. These parents are so socially insulated even within the larger Chinese hierarchy of provenance nevermind in American society that there's unlikely to be any occasion when someone holds a mirror up to them or lets them know just how they appear to others which means their kids are really isolated in processing the abuse. This is another good book for examples of narcissistic personality disorder both covert and overt. I don't respect more fortunate Chinese American kids who think Chinatown is glamorous and lap up all the exploitive media products while living an otherwise boring but at least safe existence in suburbia. This is another person's misfortune that is being used as entertainment. I guess this is a good book for those kids who have no sympathy only voyeuristic interest for Chinatown. I'm not sure that it would be effective for an at-risk child though.

    Born to Lose is a better book by the same author. It has greater depth. For some one with birth defects, he's a much better writer than many others I've read.


  3. I was born in San Francisco. It isn't like that anymore as you can see, I didn't live in Chinatown but regularly go to my Grandma or grandpa after school in chinatown. I lived in Japantown til I was six years old. I moved to Oakland ever since.

    When I brought this book, I didn't know what to expect, but when I read about his life, I could really relate to his childhood. Not as extreme as his was, but I can really relate, and how I would turn out if I was still in San Francisco. Would probably be the same as him with those family issues like that. Can turn a kid to look at their enviroment for support. I too am Toishanese, does that mean most toishanese parents are stubborn and ignorant? I don't know.

    And the Enviroment in Oakland is no different. Kids want to be goo wak jais and hard ghetto punks.



  4. this is a very well-written book for a non-fiction plot. It was recommended to me by a friend and I have to say the plot was not boring, the author was very descriptive in his writing. Don't miss out on this.


  5. Yeah-- so forget about some of the editing problems-- this book is a must read! There are so many similarities between this and cultish groups. It doesn't matter if you're a poor kid in Chinatown or a rich kid in a brainwashing group-the lessons remain the same:One's inner voice--thinking for onesself and then of course--running away when you can --are universal stories. We have seen it in Nazi Germany, with Waco, in Chinatown and in Jonestown. KIDS of all ages should read this truly eye-opening account of how easy it is to get pulled in to an ideology that then kills its own....


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Written by Loretta Lynn. By Da Capo Press. The regular list price is $16.50. Sells new for $25.00. There are some available for $13.80.
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5 comments about Loretta Lynn - Coal Miner's Daughter.

  1. I have very high standards when it comes to idols (at least by my warped definition). Mrs. Lynn managed to be both an idol and hero to me. She is a strong out spoken female that refuses to compromise her beliefs to fit into a cookie cutter/hollywood type image. The best day of my life was getting to visit her ranch and pose for a photo on her steps. I love both of her books although Still Woman Enough is my favorite as she is completely relaxed in being herself. Loretta Lynn is an inspritation for all women young and old that have had to overcome hard challenges in life.


  2. A grandmother at 28? Wow! I learned a lot of interesting things about 1) the country music star, and 2) about coming up hard and making it work out.

    This book is Loretta Lynn's tale of her childhood in Butcher Holler with her poor but pround parents. Her parents allow her to be married off to a man she barely knows when she is 13. Amazingly, she remains married to this man for the rest of his life.

    Anyway, the husband encourages Loretta to sing publicly because he thinks she has a great voice. And I don't need to tell you how the career goes, because that's pretty popular knowledge.

    All in all, this was a great book. Very well developed and informative, whether you're a country music fan or not.


  3. I have been completely in love with Loretta Lynn ever since I saw "Coal Miner's Daughter." I didn't even know who she was til I watched the movie at age 14, then I read the book and became hooked on her music. She is an amazing woman. Her life has been hard, and she doesn't take any of her success for granted. She is who she is. What you see is what you get with her. I don't know if anyone who reads her book could relate to half of what she has experienced, but it makes for interesting reading. I was lucky enough to see her live in concert a month ago, and when she walked out on that stage, I was brought literally to tears. I just couldn't believe this woman I admire so highly was actually standing in front of me. I'll never forget that night. And I will never stop loving Loretta Lynn. Read BOTH of her autobiographies. Both are excellent.


  4. This is one of the greatest books that has ever been written. My father was a coal miner until he got hurt. I sing my self and loretta is just so good. Being from the same state she is i guess the reason she has such a influenece on my life. If you read this book you will love it.


  5. Very interesting. This woman has led a very difficult life, but she never seems to lose her spirit.


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Posted in Biography (Wednesday, July 23, 2008)

Written by Amie Jane Leavitt. By Mitchell Lane Publishers. The regular list price is $25.70. Sells new for $14.98. There are some available for $14.97.
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1 comments about Keith Urban (Blue Banner Biographies) (Blue Banner Biographies).

  1. I FELT THIS BOOK WAS OVERPRICED, AND DID NOT CARE FOR THE CHILDREN'S BOOK FORMAT, BUT SINCE I'M A BIG KEITH URBAN FAN I PURCHASED THE BOOK.


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Posted in Biography (Wednesday, July 23, 2008)

Written by Larry Jones. By Doubleday. The regular list price is $23.95. Sells new for $3.26. There are some available for $1.50.
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4 comments about Keep Walking: One Man's Journey to Feed the World One Child at a Time.

  1. Reviewed by Dr. Carol Hoyer for Reader Views (3/08)

    Larry Jones knew that someday he would become great at what he would do, but nothing prepared him for seeing starving children in the United States and in his own hometown.
    He was brought up in a God-loving home and followed strict guidelines set by his mother and himself. He wasn't perfect, but he followed his heart.

    I can honestly say that every time I see a commercial on TV about starving or orphaned children I change the channel. I'm not a cruel person, but there have been so many times that you hear that charities don't give the money to the people they should. So when I started reading this book I had my doubts. However, I can say that Larry's outlook on life and his fellow man made me feel guilty for doubting some charities-- Feed The Children is one of them.

    Larry Jones is an evangelist and his mission is to ensure that all children are fed and cared for. Throughout the book he repeatedly says he is always surprised at the number of people in the United States that do not know that we have people living below poverty all over in every state and yet we turn a blind eye to them. When was the last time you came across some child who had dirt 5-inches thick, rotting teeth or no teeth, couldn't walk, barely talk and hadn't eaten for a week? Did you just ignore it? Larry Jones didn't.

    Feed The Children Foundation began before it was officially organized in 1979. The vision came from Larry Jones and his wife Fran. It is amazing what one man's faith can do to help children all over the world. Jones ability to promote this program and get individuals, groups--famous and not so famous--to help sponsor Feed The Children in itself is amazing. The reading of this book made me realize that my life isn't so bad - for others it isn't so good through no fault of their own. "Keep Walking" is a story that everyone should read, regardless of his or her faith. It really is about faith of mankind.


  2. Every person of any religion should be forever humbled after reading this book. This story tells us of Larry Joneses childhood then leads us through his faith as a Christian that he holds true to and lives by, reguardless of what takes place in his life. He started out wanting to help just one child in need. Today through him millions are given a chance to survive through his charity Feed The Children, that offers food, clothing, shelter, compassion and more to starving, helpless and hopeless fellow human brothers and sister. While our government deals with red tape, Larry, his wife Frances, FTC staff with help from us, get the job done! Great read but don't stop there!


  3. I was mesmerized by the humility and grace expressed by Larry Jones in this touching story of his ministry. Surprisingly, he brings the reader into the deepest and most compelling events of the very viable ministry of Feed The Children. I had no idea of the scope of this ministry and the amazing management it takes to bring desperately needed aid to every corner of the earth. Larry and Frances, to me, are in the same category of Mother Theresa and St. Francis of Assisi--God driven and supplied to help the most needful of God's creatures. They have quietly, for years, "done it unto the least of these, My brethren..." A great read.


  4. This is an excellent account of what one person did to set up a world relief organization that feeds, provides medical care, etc., for countless children and families worldwide. The book is an honest account of the struggles and successes, the ups and downs, faced by the organization Feed The Children. It shows what one person can do if that person is serious about meeting the needs of the world's needy. I would highly recommend this book to everyone who asks the question: "What can I do to help those in need or to help make the world a better place?"


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